Frankly, if I knew the answer to this question, things would probably be a lot easier for many people out there. But unfortunately, I do not. Well, nobody knows precisely, right? But we kind of understand that sexual anxiety is now a common problem of many people. Both men and women. And all of them need to fight this. But how are they supposed to do that?
So, what is the answer to the question why some people face sexual anxiety? Well, the thing is, sexual anxiety can be caused by various issues. But why do these issues happen to certain people is not certain. Anyway, here are some of the most common causes:
- Fear of not performing well. This usually happens the first time you have seuxal intercourse with certain person. Some people are so focused on making a good impression that when the time comes, they cannot simply perform. And it can seriously ruin your long-planned romantic evening.
- Bad previous experience. Well, you should be honest with your partner before you evne think about having sex. And you should also try therapy. I mean, having psychological issues is quite common, so there is nothing that should stop you from dealing with them.
- Problems in a relationship. If you and your partner have certain issues, then sex will not solve them. Actually, it might only make it all worse. So, please, think about actually dealing with the issues.
- Physical issues. Any disease or any other medical problem can cause troubles during intercourse. So, firstly, you might want to go see your doctor in order to find out.
Well, do not panic. Sexual anxiety is not permanent and you can definitely deal with it. You just need to take a deep breath and take the first step! So, talk to your partner, their support is something you will need along the way. Fingers crossed!